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“To my Brother who is now Home. You are and will always be missed. Heaven has gained a good Angel with a Great soul. He now watches over us with the...Read More »
1 of 100+ | Posted by: Will James - ALEXANDRIA, VA

“How I wish that my son Greg Polite JR. ur cousin & I could of had a chance to meet u. From what I heard and what was said about u you showed me that...Read More »
2 of 100+ | Posted by: Marion - Springfield, MA - Family

“Still remember that little boy running thru Marina Village w/a black cape tied around your neck telling us you were a super hero. That is just what...Read More »
3 of 100+ | Posted by: Sandy Jenkins - Bridgeport, CT

“We had some great times as kids growing up in Marina Village. And I'm sure your up there in heaven with my cousin Tremaine ballin on the basketball...Read More »
4 of 100+ | Posted by: CeCe Clemons - Martinsville, VA

“You will always be remembered my brother. ”
5 of 100+ | Posted by: Will James - GLEN BURNIE, MD

“This is for friends and family.Jaime is smiling down at us saying he made it.Where there's no more pain and suffering.Where there are many mansions...Read More »
6 of 100+ | Posted by: cedric and tina mitchell - CT

“To Denise,It's been a year...my prayers are still with you and your family. ”
7 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Andres - Missouri City, TX

“Thank you for being a friend and a man that other brother's could look up too. ”
8 of 100+ | Posted by: Mr.Ronald Waters AKA Samsom from R4R - CT

“For the Family of Jamie, continued blessings. ”
9 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Andres - Missouri City, TX

“My heart is heavy. I am truly deeply sorry for the loss of Jamie. I am so sorry that my son & I never got the chance to meet him.But from what I hear...Read More »
10 of 100+ | Posted by: Marion - Springfield, MA

“I was so sad to hear the news of Jaime passing - we grew up together in Bridgeport, Ct - I just have so many fond memories of him. My prayers and...Read More »
11 of 100+ | Posted by: L Jones- Burchette - VA

“To Mrs. Jaime Polite, The Polite/ Langston Family, I remember meeting Jaime when we were all in our 20's and I thought to myself what a charming and...Read More »
12 of 100+ | Posted by: Wendy Fuller-Jones - CT

“TO THE POLITE FAMILY MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU IN YOUR TIME OF NEED ”
13 of 100+ | Posted by: GREGORY PAYNE - HARTFORD, CT

“Taken To Soon - No doubt in my mind he is in the Kingdom of Heaven - Such a wonderful soul. RIP Jaime XO ”
14 of 100+ | Posted by: Carol Bruno - Norwalk, CT

I will miss my brother deeply, rest in peace my brother.
15 of 100+ | Posted by: Nathan Polite

“Gone but will never be forgotten, a special person with an infectionous personality...You will be greatly missed. RIP ”
16 of 100+ | Posted by: STEPHANIE TATUM - BRIDGEPORT, CT

“Jaime still can't believe you are gone. But your spirit will live on, you were such a wonderful person with a very nice personality, now you are at...Read More »
17 of 100+ | Posted by: Tanya Sheldon - Shelton, CT

“Going to mis talking to him daily ”
18 of 100+ | Posted by: Delvitta Reid - Bridgeport, CT

“Our Deepest Sympathy. Thinking of you and the family in this time of sorrow. Jaime is at peace now. Jaime will forever be in our hearts.Blanche...Read More »
19 of 100+ | Posted by: Jaime polite - CT

“"God Bless" Rest In Paradise Jaime -Amen ”
20 of 100+ | Posted by: Bobbi Langston - Bridgeport, CT

“Jamie you will be forever in my heart,your smile lives on and on..... ”
21 of 100+ | Posted by: Dianne mixon - laurel, MD

“My prayers go out to the family he will truly be missed ”
22 of 100+ | Posted by: Alicia Jones - new haven, CT

“Our deepest sympathy to you, Denise and the family.May God comfort you in this time of sorrow.Eld. & Mo. Bayne, Rehoboth COGIC ”
23 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“R.I.P. JAIME. LOVE YOU ”
24 of 100+ | Posted by: LINDA KEITH - NEW HAVEN, CT

“TO DENISE AND FAMILY. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY. HE'S GOING HOME TO BE WITH OUR HEAVENLY FATHER. R.I.P.JAIME. LOVE YOU DENISE ”
25 of 100+ | Posted by: LINDA KEITH - NEW HAVEN, CT

“May God be with you during this difficult time of sorrow and His peace be with you always. My prayers are with you. ”
26 of 100+ | Posted by: Brenda Warner - Hamden, CT

“May God comfort you during this time of great pain and sorrow. ”
27 of 100+ | Posted by: Bi shop Richardo Griffith - CT

“My love nd prayers go out to the entire family, Jaime was a great man nd will never be forgotten.. RIP ”
28 of 100+ | Posted by: Nilda Santos - Derby, CT

“my deepest and most sincere condolences to my sister Dinky,I pray God strengthens you"may the peace of God which passes all understanding keep our...Read More »
29 of 100+ | Posted by: Felicia Swint Andrews - Duluth, GA

“My deepest condolences to the Polite family, Jaime was so full of life and loved by many and if you ever had the chance to cross paths with him he...Read More »
30 of 100+ | Posted by: Jay (Superman Jay "The Skinny Boys") Harrison - CT

“Denise, may God wraps His loving arms all around you & family throughout lifetime. Remember the wonderful times you had with your husband. We pray...Read More »
31 of 100+ | Posted by: Elder Henry & Cynthia James - CT

“May the Lord strengthen the Polite family during these uneasy times and bring closer to otger another in prayer, in faith and in supporting each...Read More »
32 of 100+ | Posted by: Alexandra Mastej - Bridgeport, CT

“Rest In Peace, Thoughts and prayers to Denise and the rest of the family. ”
33 of 100+ | Posted by: The Verrelli Family

“I never had the pleasure of meeting him but I got to know the kindness in his heart. When I had to have radiation, without knowing me personally, he...Read More »
34 of 100+ | Posted by: Andrea - Derby, CT - Friend

“"To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord" .... No more pain, I'm thankful your body will feel no more pain. You are definitely...Read More »
35 of 100+ | Posted by: Tina Rawls - Bridgeport, CT

“MY DEEPEST AND HEART FELT CONDOLENCE TO THE POLITE FAMILY. MAY YOU FIND COMFORT AND PEACE IN KNOWING THAT HE IS NO LONGER IN PAIN. HE ENDURED HIS...Read More »
36 of 100+ | Posted by: MARCELLA DIXON - FORT LADERDALE, FL

“Denise sorry for your loss Jaime will be truely missed and trust in god only he can heal all of your pain. Love You!!! ”
37 of 100+ | Posted by: Tasha - nEW hAVEN, CT - Family

“Please accept our deepest sympathies. ”
38 of 100+ | Posted by: Glenn & Nelaine Clark-Hines - CT

“To the Polite Family, my prayers go out to the family with deepest sympathy of the going away of Jamie. May the God of comfort and strength be with...Read More »
39 of 100+ | Posted by: Andrea Kennedy-Summerville and Family - CT

“My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to the Polite family during this very difficult time. I will continue to uplift you'll in prayer. Rest In...Read More »
40 of 100+ | Posted by: Kamala Turner - Bridgeport, CT

“My deepest condolences to the family of Jaime Polite. May you find some level of comfort in knowing that your loved one is resting in peace. He was...Read More »
41 of 100+ | Posted by: Carolyn Vermont - Bridgeport, CT

“My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of such a great person. Jaime's love, light, and spirit will forever shine through his children...Read More »
42 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Meeting you Jamie thru Thomas Marvin Polite, you will always be my brother in law. We were all teens when we met, we all grew together. And we all...Read More »
43 of 100+ | Posted by: Tina Polite-Mihocko - stratford, CT

“My deepest sympathy at this tough time,may you seek strength from Our highest Power!!! ”
44 of 100+ | Posted by: Mr AnthonyStaton aka Tooshea - CT

“My prayers are with my family and friends.My God give you and understanding.He never give us more than we can bare.He saw his pain and called him on...Read More »
45 of 100+ | Posted by: Tina Mitchell - New Haven, CT

“Rip brother thanks for being a friend that listened to my junk , an for ur advice. ”
46 of 100+ | Posted by: Cedric Mitchell - New haven, CT

“Jaime will surely be missed but never forgotten. May the family take comfort in Knowing he was well loved but God loved him more.... ”
47 of 100+ | Posted by: louis k. bosley - new haven, CT

“Our prayers go out to the entire family. May GOD Bless you. ”
48 of 100+ | Posted by: Vikcy and Doris-Jean Teel - CT

“My Sincere condolences for your loss. I Worked with Jamie as a firefighter Jamie was a hero and a true lifesaver. I have also seen Jamie as an actor...Read More »
49 of 100+ | Posted by: Greg Grier - Orlando, FL

“May God bless your spirit and those of your family. We will genuinely forever miss you. ”
50 of 100+ | Posted by: Cesar Cortes

“RIP and forever my brotha ”
51 of 100+ | Posted by: Will James aka Oupie - MD

“my condolences send to this entire family ”
52 of 100+ | Posted by: Vince Reed - Tampa, FL

“We are lifting the entire Polite, Langston and Coote family up in prayer during this difficult time. May God grant you all his comfort and peace ”
53 of 100+ | Posted by: Raymond and Princess Dawson - CT

“Your family has our deepest condolences during this difficult time. Please know that we are praying for you all individually and collectively. ”
54 of 100+ | Posted by: Raymond and Princess Dawson and family - CT

“Anita & TubeyI am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jaime. I remember bring him everywhere with us when he was little. He stopped by my mother's...Read More »
55 of 100+ | Posted by: Maureen Arszyla - Bridgeport, CT

“My condolences to the entire family. RIParadise Jaime. ”
56 of 100+ | Posted by: Stacey Hobson - New Haven, CT

“May God strengthen the family during this time bereavement. ”
57 of 100+ | Posted by: Yolonda "Lon" Gaines Washington - GA

“Heartfelt condolences are extended to your family at this great time of loss. May it bring you a measure of peace knowing that Jaime truly gave of...Read More »
58 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“I'm still in shock that you're gone! Words can't express how you will me missed by our family and friends but the most important thing is that you...Read More »
59 of 100+ | Posted by: Kevin Harp - West Haven, CT

“Jamie i pinky swear i will see you again . ”
60 of 100+ | Posted by: Pandora Tate - Arington, TX

“I love you my brother.the Polite family you guys know I love yourll ”
61 of 100+ | Posted by: Marae Montgomery - bamberg, SC

“I love you my brother in I love you ”
62 of 100+ | Posted by: Marae Montgomery - bamberg, SC

“What a good man you are. Gone too soon. May God Bless and protect your family and keep them strong in their time of need as you would have done so...Read More »
63 of 100+ | Posted by: Rhonda Knox - New Haven, CT

“I didn't know Jaime personally but I do know family members. I have been reading and watching tributes about this young man and his life over the...Read More »
64 of 100+ | Posted by: Stephanie Stewart - Willingboro, NJ

“My condolences to the Coote and Polite family Mr swagg him self will live on forever in everyone heart RIP Jamie ”
65 of 100+ | Posted by: dianne baker - raleigh, NC

“My heart is heavy and my love and prayers go out to the Coote and Polite Family. I have known Jamie since he was born. There was never a time that...Read More »
66 of 100+ | Posted by: Cheryl Dean Gethers - Wallingford, CT

“My thoughts and payers are with you, the Coote & Polite family. May God give you the strength to carry on in your time of .need ”
67 of 100+ | Posted by: Genet Gee Randolph & family - GA

“To the Polite family you have my condolesence the word says when a love one went too a better place even though it sad occasion, suppose to rejoiced....Read More »
68 of 100+ | Posted by: Colette Boyd - Westhaven, CT

“Im so sorry for your loss he was a good friend ”
69 of 100+ | Posted by: John Jackson - Bridgeport, CT

“Will miss u dearly, they don't make them like u anymore ”
70 of 100+ | Posted by: Cheryl - Bpt - Family

“To the Polite family my Allah bless you in your time of need ”
71 of 100+ | Posted by: Kenny Payne - Hartford, CT

“Love you J never forget you loved you in life and in death we do the same ”
72 of 100+ | Posted by: Aunt Marcia - Macon, GA - Aunt

“Condolences to the Polite & Langston families. Jaime was a true joy and a bright and shining star to all who had the pleasure of knowing him. I'm...Read More »
73 of 100+ | Posted by: Zula Odessa Langston - Spring, TX

“Swag brought so many happy moments in our life and left us with a treasure trove of memories. We will never be able to forget you. We are praying for...Read More »
74 of 100+ | Posted by: Boom - New Haven, CT - Sister

“swift journey, God bless Jamie. ”
75 of 100+ | Posted by: michal williams - waterbury, CT

“I love you daddy ”
76 of 100+ | Posted by: Troya - Daughter

“We love you my brother, you will live in our heart forever.. When we ride, you ride.. SALUTE!!! SWAGGA the DON ”
77 of 100+ | Posted by: Smith family - New Haven, CT

“Wednesday, February 5, 2014 9:04 a.m.: To the Family Members and Friends of Mr. Jaime Troy (Coote) Polite, You have my deepest sympathy in his...Read More »
78 of 100+ | Posted by: Ms. Cheryl M. Atkinson - Hamden, CT

“My condolence to the family . ”
79 of 100+ | Posted by: Maria (Dina)Santos - Stratford, CT

“My prayers and deepest sympathy to the Polite, Coote and Langston family. R.I.P. Jamie. ”
80 of 100+ | Posted by: Diane Langston - Hamden, CT

“God saw you were getting tired, and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around you and whispered, "Come To Me." With tearful eyes we watched you...Read More »
81 of 100+ | Posted by: Big Del - Bpt, CT

“God be with the family. Jaime is surrounded by the arms of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. RIP ”
82 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Love You always and you will not ever be forgotten!!! You were a beautiful person and a true gentleman!!! ”
83 of 100+ | Posted by: Komica Coote - Bridgeport, CT

“May the memories of Jaime bring you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. ”
84 of 100+ | Posted by: Rod, Mechele & Deja Mack - CT

“Sincerest condolences to The Langston, Polite and Coote family, my prayers are with you, I will remember Jaime for the tru gentlemen he was, just an...Read More »
85 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Jones Mendenhall - Bpt, CT

“Our hearts were deeply troubled as we watched our cuz asleep the devastation of the cancer caused us visibly to weep. His wife was at his bedside...Read More »
86 of 100+ | Posted by: Dawn Lewis - New Haven, CT

“God looked around his garden, And found an empty place. He then looked down upon earth, and saw your tired face. He put his arms around you and...Read More »
87 of 100+ | Posted by: April Wilson Harvey - Cary, NC

“I knew Jamie since he was little guy, living in marina village. He was the peace maker out of all of us. And now he is with his maker. God Bless you...Read More »
88 of 100+ | Posted by: nora napoli - milford, CT

“Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. ”
89 of 100+ | Posted by: mark harp - bridgeport, CT

“May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. ”
90 of 100+ | Posted by: A friend

“Jamie may you rest in peace. To your family the Langston, Polite and Coote family may god bless you and keep you. I know it's hard to accept but...Read More »
91 of 100+ | Posted by: Dee Teasley and Family - CT

“I first met Mr. Polite at a dinner at the Stratford Inn a very sharp dresser and a person you could talk to a Man that was about his Family and his...Read More »
92 of 100+ | Posted by: Brother Samson - New Haven, CT

“Gone to soon my condolence to your family, You, Party, and Dwight watch over all of us. RIP my friend ”
93 of 100+ | Posted by: Charlanda (Byrd) Bish - VA

“So sorry for your loss. May our precious God comfort your family. Praying for you. ”
94 of 100+ | Posted by: Nancy Melson - Huntington, CT

“My Condolences to the Polite Family. May God comfort You. To My God Sister Dinky, Love u.May God Continue To Bless U.. Love Always Your God Sister...Read More »
95 of 100+ | Posted by: Tina Parker - Sicklerville, NJ

“Prayers of continued strength for you, Mrs. Denise Polite. Prayers of Peace & Serenity for the entire family. Hugs, ”
96 of 100+ | Posted by: Lisa Andres - Missouri City, TX

“SENDING MY PRAYERS TO THE POLITE FAMILY. ”
97 of 100+ | Posted by: TOPEEKA - DOUGLASVILLE, GA

“I meet you and your wife during Black biker week in Myrtle Beach we had a cookout for family and friends my niece Lucinda Moore introduce us....Read More »
98 of 100+ | Posted by: Elder Deloris Simmons - SC

“I met you during Blake biker week in Myrtle Beach we had a cookout for family and friends my niece Lucinda Moore introduce us. Glad I had a chancev...Read More »
99 of 100+ | Posted by: Elder Deloris Simmons - SC

“Im sorry we never got to know each other the way we should have, bt i knw u were a great man. So u rest in paradise love, you will forever be missed. ”
100 of 100+ | Posted by: Shontel Staples - Morrow, GA


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Jaime Troy (Coote) Polite aka "Swagga," 44, of Mohawk Dr., North Haven, CT went home to be with the Lord on January 30, 2014 surrounded by family. He was born to the late Nelson Polite and Susie Langston in Bridgeport, CT on August 7, 1969. Mr. Polite served in the United States Airforce and received an honorable discharge. Mr. Polite served with Engine Company 6 of the New Haven Fire Department for 16 years and was also a hero for the Red Cross. Mr. Polite was the sergeant at arms of the Presidents Motorcycle Club and will be remembered as a notable actor, outgoing, caring and a person who truly enjoyed spending time with his loved ones and dressing well. He leaves to cherish his memory; loving wife, Denise Polite of North Haven; sons, Alvin Hill of PA, Lamont Hill of Bridgeport , Langston Hill of TX and Shawn Gilmore of North Haven; daughters, Troya Coote and J'Nise Polite both of North Haven, Janiah Rhodes of SC; 4 brothers, Marvin Polite (Neide) of Shelton, Nelson Polite of TX, Nathan Polite (R.C.) and Jermaine Polite both of Bridgeport; 6 sisters, Arnetta Coote of Bridgeport, Anita Coote of VA, Meredith Polite (Willie) of MD, Hannah Polite-Jones (Mike) of TX, Pamela Wilson (Russell) and Donna Siler both of TX; 6 grandchildren; and a host of relatives and friends.